Monday, August 3, 2009

we are ONE & we have ONE


I am a budding corporate. Rather I am proclaimed to be a buddy corporate. I would refer to a management training ( popular now as soft skill training ) held for senior Area Managers of our company at Delhi. Even if I had felt myself to have skills- both soft & hard in a better trajectory ,the session being dealt by Mr.Amarjeet Singh an Ex IIM-A Dean & also an advisor to the renowned industrialist Vijay Mallya made me nominate myself. It was a decision well chose, as the training was too personal with 9 participants. The session went in good flow till the last day,but the last part dealt on family management, simply welcomed debate.I am well aware from my childhood days some biology topics had been controversial among us the young champs.Nevertheless the ambiguities were cleared before the class break .
The trainer quoted on UPA government's initiative to pass a bill on 'one child one family' program.The policy may infringe free bees for the same, with legal complications for the family with more than 2 children. For me being a bachelor, it didn't reciprocate anything.Lot of opposes were there when the trainer supported this act as family management/planing has been well linked with finance management of an individual. There were many who stood up for their children as children are gifts of god.
Population explosion is a menace for future India. Its proven in the census survey of 2008 that the density of population ( Number of individuals in one square meter) has mercury ed by 13% when compared t0 the last survey. I have an opinion that its time to get rid of the traditional thought of ' pair children' . Children are obviously gift of god .To add upon they are the product of your love with your partner.Being a citizen, you have a social obligation for the country too.Its a fact, to educate the ignorant is difficult. At least the well educated future-gen should pave the way for the new trend.The bill will be aimed at that only.Even the current companies have limited the maternal benefits for a single child.Being an adult i too have the fundamental right to make my choice.For me there is a crave for babies... Then what to do for a better India?? One bag 2 pockets- better twins dear !!!!!

4 comments:

  1. No way I can support one child policy. According to me there is nothing to worry of Population explosion. God will take care of it very well. He have created a lot of resources in this world for the whole population and also if he feels population is getting too much, he will easily take care of it using Earthquakes, Tsunami, flu's etc etc. That is nature's law.

    What if the only child of a family dies at an age of 20 or at the age at which he should be taking care of his parents???

    Even with the two child policy that most middle class family took sometime back, they are suffering now. Look at most aged middle class families, most of the parents are alone and their two children will be somewhere abroad or the girl at husbands place. Children are definitely Gods blessing.

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  2. @ Omar thanks for your cracking comment. I too believed that 2 is better than 1. See there are chances where the entire family passes avay in accidents.Also every child is compaasionate for a parent whether it be 10 or 1.Missing 1 hurts the same even if 9 are there. Hence its just a traditional misthought that 2 is better than 1.Moreover families are nuclear nowadays man. Think about u itself .Are u there @ home when ur parents need u? Not when u need ur parents...

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  3. Will India benefit from passing such a bill, in long term/short term? There will be several other issues on the other part too..

    I'm sure majority will poll against that, when introduced!

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  4. @ kiran thanks muthe. If u guys cant even think of family planning before marriage i can foresee the young gen. Yet i will support the bill. But i want twins ;-)

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